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Travel Expert Samantha Brown Shares Airport Kindness Tip

Traveling for the holidays can bring up a lot of stressful feelings. But even though things can get a little taxing toward the end of the year, there’s one tip you can incorporate into your “airport routine” to make your travel experience a little more enjoyable.

Samantha Brown, who has been a television travel host for over 25 years (you may know her from hosting Travel Channel shows like Great Hotels and Passport to Europe), recently posted a video on Instagram about an incredibly helpful and thoughtful tip: “Here is my best travel hack on how you can make the airport a wonderful place; a great experience.”

“Okay, you know how I say, ‘Always confirm your gate before you do anything else?’ (i.e., you go to the restroom, get a cup of coffee, or that kind of thing).”

“So, you’re at your gate. Right now, take a look around. Is there a person who’s in a wheelchair that’s all alone? They can’t go anywhere. Maybe there’s a single caregiver whose hands are full with kids or an aging parent. Go up to them and say, ‘Hey, I’m going to get a cup of coffee, would you like one? Or can I get you anything? Can I get ya a bottle of water, a snack?'”

“It’s my privilege; of course, I don’t charge — and it’s just a nice thing to do. As we’re all talking about how we can make the world a kinder place, this is just one way to do it.”

After when Samantha posted this video, not only did people love this idea, but someone who uses a wheelchair confirmed this tip could be helpful for those who need assistance.

A person with kids also confirmed this as well.

And finally, another person from the loved one’s point of view provided their thoughts.

People also provided alternative, non-financial ways to show kindness to others in the airport.

For instance, this person said to ask if a wheelchair user needs to go to the bathroom.

Then someone provided an example of how they helped someone who just broke their foot.

Someone else said you can also ask the ticket agents if they need anything if they can’t leave their post.

However, another user said it would be great for airports to hire teams to provide assistance as well.

At the end of the day, it’s nice to hear all the ways we can be kinder to strangers.

So, do you have any kind travel gestures that may help others? Tell us what they are and why they work in the comments below.

Met Office issues rare amber weather warnings as Storm Bert to bring UK travel chaos

The Met Office has slapped a rare amber weather warning on four UK regions as Storm Bert threatens to wreak havoc across large parts of Britain later this week.The 10-hour alert is in place for parts of Scotland this weekend, as gusts of up to 70mph will hammer into the British Isles.The Grampian, Central, Tayside & Fife, Highlands & Eilean Siar, and Strathclyde areas are all impacted by the severe warning between 7am and 5pm on Saturday, November 23.Storm Bert’s arrival follows a week of wintry showers and freezing temperatures, which have already caused hazardous conditions across northern and exposed areas.Snow and ice warnings remain in place for parts of the UK through Friday, as cold air persists.The weather warning from the Met Office reads: “Heavy snow will spread northeastwards on Saturday morning, giving significant accumulations in many areas. Accumulations of 10-20 cm are likely on ground typically above 200m, with potentially as much as 20-40 cm on hills above 400m.”Snow will eventually revert to rain during Saturday afternoon, but may be preceded by a short spell of freezing rain in places adding to the ice risk.Strengthening winds will lead to drifting of lying snow, with difficult travelling conditions likely on higher level routes, and the risk of interruptions to power supplies. A fairly rapid thaw of lying snow is then likely on Saturday night as milder air moves in.”Southern and western regions of the UK will face heavy rainfall, with 50-75 mm expected widely and over 100 mm possible in parts of Wales and southwest England.Rapid snowmelt and periods of strong winds are likely to exacerbate the risks of flooding and travel disruption. In northern England and Scotland, snowfall could be heavy, particularly over elevated areas.What to ExpectTravel Delays: Roads are likely to face significant delays, with some vehicles and passengers potentially stranded.Power Cuts: Outages are likely, impacting mobile phone coverage and other essential services.Rural Communities: Some rural areas may become cut off due to heavy snowfall.Rail Travel: Delays and cancellations are expected across the rail network.Hazardous Surfaces: Untreated pavements and cycle paths may become impassable.Injuries: Slips and falls on icy surfaces are likely, posing risks to pedestrians.The Met Office urges everyone to prepare for severe weather impacts and follow updates as Storm Bert approaches.The UK Health Security Agency (UKHSA) has issued Cold Health Alerts for England, urging health and social care professionals to prepare for the impacts of prolonged cold weather. The public is also encouraged to stay informed and take precautions.RAC Breakdown spokesperson Alice Simpson said: “With freezing temperatures already causing disruption, we advise motorists to plan well and ensure vehicles are winter-ready. Stick to major roads, reduce speeds, and carry essentials like blankets, warm clothing, and phone chargers.”The unsettled weather is expected to persist into early next week, with strong winds and showers affecting many areas.Although temperatures will average out for most, a brief return to colder conditions with wintry showers may occur before milder weather resumes by the end of next week.

Can Fear Make You a Better Fighter? Here’s What Science Says About Combat Sports

Behind the physical prowess of fighters, there’s a mental game going on in the background. A major component of that game is fear. One can imagine stepping into a ring in front of thousands in the crowd millions behind the screen. The world is watching. The screams and shouts fill the atmosphere, and the noise deafens. Lights illuminate the ring. The person on the other side is ready to kill if needed. Fear is bound to creep in here. It’s imminent. The battle started long before the bell rang. The build-up, the weigh-ins, media, fans so many other things have been eating away at the psyche. The Science of FearThe body activates the sympathetic nervous system in the face of danger. It gives us two options: fight or flight. We can either face the danger or run away from it. In a ring, flight is never an option. One can only pick the other one. As a result, the heart rate shoots up, the skin starts to sweat profusely and blood rushes into the veins. Fear and anxiety are part and parcel of this process. In combat sports, fighters often describe time as slowing down and feeling hyperaware of their surroundings. Yet, fear also tends to distort perception, making them hesitate or second-guess their decisions—potentially fatal errors in the ring. Managing these physiological and psychological changes becomes a vital skill for fighters.

Read More: Indian Philosophical Perspectives on Anxiety and FearHistorical PerspectiveIn prehistoric times, fear was essential for survival since there were predators all around. It was the fear of getting hurt or mauled that made us run away. While fear once meant survival, today it’s a mental opponent in the ring. It doesn’t matter if one is getting his face pounded in or his ribs are being cracked up from the punches. The fight will stop only when they are no longer conscious or if they have given up. Taking words from fighters’ accounts, no feeling is worse than watching yourself get upbeat in front of millions. Fear can stem from many things. The fear of getting injured is beyond repair. Also, the fear of a career-ending concussion. The fear of getting a loss on the record. The fear stems not just from physical pain but from the humiliation, the tarnished legacy, and an overwhelming sense of failure.

‘A Traveler’s Needs’ Review: Language Lessons

Iris (Isabelle Huppert), a stranger who teaches French in Seoul, is at the center of an enigmatic film by Hong Sang-soo.“Why’d she come to Korea?” a man (Kwon Hae-hyo) asks his wife (Lee Hye-young) in the park, as Iris (Isabelle Huppert) is walking away from them. Iris is a stranger in Seoul who has started teaching French to the wife. Whether Iris is up to the task is uncertain. She has no background in instruction, and the only language that she and her pupils share is English, which is not a native tongue for any of them.Iris takes an oddball approach to acclimating her students to French: She extracts personal confessions from them in English, then writes wildly extrapolated versions of the French on index cards. “You’ll love your true emotion being expressed in a foreign language,” she says. Better that than to learn phrases from a textbook — something she declines to use. She is also a fiend for makgeolli, the Korean rice wine, of which she claims to drink one or two bottles every day.Is Iris for real? That question hangs over “A Traveler’s Needs,” just as it does over the career of the director Hong Sang-soo. Hong routinely turns out two features per year with methods nearly as baffling as Iris’s: His devotees see infinite subtlety in his use of theme and variation, while the skeptical can’t help but wonder if his movies have become increasingly repetitive and slapdash. In “A Traveler’s Needs,” which won second prize at the Berlin International Film Festival, the sunlit interiors often suggest a deliberately amateurish look.This is his third overall feature with Huppert, who adds drollery and an air of mystery. And there is just enough intrigue this time — one motif involves the difficulty of translating a work by Yoon Dong-ju, a Korean poet who died in 1945 after being imprisoned in Japan — to suggest hidden depths.A Traveler’s NeedsNot rated. In English, Korean (with subtitles) and French. Running time: 1 hour 30 minutes. In theaters.

Deaths of at Least 4 Tourists in Laos Raise Alarm About Tainted Drinks

Travelers from the United States, Australia and Denmark have died in the Southeast Asian nation in recent days. Officials warned of poisoning caused by alcoholic drinks containing methanol.At least four people traveling in Laos, including an American, have died in recent days as officials in Australia and New Zealand said there had likely been an outbreak of methanol poisoning there caused by tainted alcoholic drinks.Penny Wong, Australia’s foreign minister, said on Thursday that Bianca Jones, an Australian, had died in Thailand, where she had been brought after becoming sick in Laos.Ms. Jones, 19, had been hospitalized last week after consuming an alcoholic drink in Laos, said Col. Phattanawong Chanphon, the superintendent of the police station in Muang Udon Thani, the town in Thailand where she died. He said the cause was swelling in the brain caused by methanol.It was unclear whether three other deaths of foreign travelers reported this week in Laos, a landlocked nation in Southeast Asia that is popular with backpackers, had been caused by methanol.The State Department said in an emailed statement on Thursday that an American had died in Vang Vieng, a tourist town in Laos. It did not offer details.The Associated Press reported that two Australian women in the same town had been sickened after taking shots of Lao vodka offered to them by a hostel where they were staying, citing a manager of the hostel.Methanol, a toxic chemical used in household and industrial products like antifreeze, is sometimes added to drinks as a cheaper alternative to ethanol, the alcohol used in alcoholic beverages.Australia’s Foreign Ministry said in an advisory this week that it suspected several Australians had gotten methanol poisoning from consuming alcoholic drinks in Laos this month. It warned travelers to be wary of risks with spirit-based drinks, including cocktails.New Zealand’s Foreign Ministry said in a statement on Thursday that its embassy in Bangkok, which oversees Laos, had been contacted by a citizen who was ill and had likely suffered methanol poisoning in Laos.Denmark’s Foreign Ministry said earlier this week that two Danish citizens had died in Laos. The ministry did not specify whether the deaths were linked to methanol poisoning.Another Australian, Holly Bowles, a friend of Ms. Jones who the Thai authorities said had been drinking with her, remained hospitalized in Thailand with a critical illness, Prime Minister Anthony Albanese of Australia said on Thursday. Ryn Jirenuwat

10 Book Embossers and Book Stamps to Gift the Reader in Your Life

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When arranging your home library, there are a number of design decisions. After arranging your bookshelves, you choose how to organize the books on your shelves. Whether you’re sorting by author, color, genre, or the Dewey Decimal System itself, you want to be able to find your necessary books quickly. When assembling a book collection, I also want to mark books that are precious to me. Whether it’s a mass-market paperback or a decorative cloth-bound special edition with painted edges, it’s fun to add your own mark with a book embosser or book stamp.
As much fun as it is to organize my own library, I also enjoy looking in secondhand shops for books. Finding people’s old notes, old stamped library cards, and other random ephemera in the book makes it a great addition to the historical record. Adding designs to my own books could be a way of participating in that process of book history that I love personally. Having a stamp or embossment gives the book a little character that could be fun for the next owner of a book that I donate or leave in a Little Free Library.

Book embossers and stamps are also a great personalized gift for your book-loving friends. You can find the perfect themed one for fans of any genre. Many of the stamps listed here can also be purchased as embossers, so there are options for each type of decoration.

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Custom Library Embosser, Moon Phases: This book embosser with moon decoration would be great for science fiction, fantasy, or astrology fans. $45, or $20 as a stamp

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7 Queer Books to Vote for in the Goodreads Choice Awards

It’s that time again: the Goodreads Choice Awards. Of all the year-end best-of lists, this one is the most transparently a popularity contest. Every year, the initial round has at least some interesting choices, including—usually—queer and BIPOC representation. And every year, by the end, most of those interesting and diverse choices are gone. But hope springs eternal, and that’s why I’m sharing with you the queer books included in the opening round, so you can cast your vote and help them out.Hot take: I have no shame in voting for books I haven’t read in the Goodreads Choice Awards. Almost no one has read every book in a category, so it’s already wildly skewed towards the most popular books—which usually means the books with the biggest marketing budgets. Diverse books have the deck stacked against them, so if I haven’t read a great book in that category, I always vote for the queer and BIPOC books I’ve heard good things about, even if I haven’t read them. But I’ll leave that to your discretion. Whether you’re voting for them or not, this is a good snapshot of the buzziest queer books this year.

Today, I’ve highlighted the adult fiction and nonfiction categories and included recommendations from Book Riot writers for our top one or two picks. As far as I can tell, there are no queer books in the Historical Fiction and Mystery & Thriller categories. The queer books in the Debut Novel and Audiobook categories were also included in other categories, so I’ve indicated that when applicable. I’ll cover the Young Adult categories next time.
As always, these are just the books I immediately recognized as queer; let me know if you spot any I missed!

Fiction:

Martyr! by Kaveh Akbar (also in Debut Novel)

It’s always nice when one of the biggest literary fiction titles of the year is queer. This is a bestseller that comes highly recommended by authors like Tommy Orange, Lauren Groff, John Green, Clint Smith, and more. It follows Cyrus, a twentysomething queer poet who has been numbing his pain with drugs and alcohol. His mother was killed when her plane was shot down over Tehran in a senseless act of violence by the U.S. military. His father recently died of a heart attack. As he becomes sober, Cyrus goes looking for meaning, and he finds it by researching martyrs. When he hears about an artist dying of cancer in an exhibition at a museum, he is determined to meet her. —Danika Ellis

Greta & Valdin by Rebecca K Reilly (also in Debut Novel)

This award-winning book follows siblings Greta and Valdin as they contend with an eccentric, multiracial family, queerness, and just trying to figure it all out. Valdin is doing superficially well after having been dumped by his boyfriend a year ago—his colleagues are only occasionally weird about his Maaori heritage, and he has intermittent sad sex with a friend—when work sends him from New Zealand to Argentina, where his ex is. Meanwhile, Greta has her own bubbling sadness. She’s experiencing unrequited pining, and her family is in a state made even more perplexing by her brother’s sudden, secretive move to South America. —Erica Ezeifedi

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Romance:

The Pairing by Casey McQuiston

Theo and Kit were childhood best friends who fell in love and were inseparable into their twenties…until a fight on the way to their dream vacation changed everything. Now, it’s four years later, and the voucher for this food and wine-tasting tour across Europe is about to expire, so Theo books the trip solo at the last possible moment—only to find that Kit had the same idea. Stuck on the same trip for weeks, they hesitantly begin to rebuild their friendship. Along the way, they make a bet about who can sleep with someone first in each of the cities they visit.
This may be my new favorite romance novel. The descriptions of food and drink, plus the beautiful locales, make this feel so decadent. It’s steamy and sweet at the same time, with a heavy dose of yearning. —Danika Ellis

Romantasy:

Faebound by Saara El-Arifi

An elf colonel banished from the army by her lover, the commander, soon finds herself in even worse straits when she unknowingly kills the prince of the fae—who are not even supposed to exist. Now, she’s a prisoner alongside her sister and best friend, facing the prospect of a swift execution. But when an obeah, a creature sacred to the fae, bonds with her, Yeeran’s life is saved. Still trapped in the land of the fae, and facing their ever-present loathing, will Yeeran and the others be able to escape before it’s too late? Or will they learn there’s more to the fae than they realized? —Rachel Brittain

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Science Fiction:

Yours for the Taking by Gabrielle Korn

Set in 2050, Yours for the Taking tells the story of The Inside Project, a series of city-sized structures that is the only way to survive the elements in a quickly changing world. When Ava is accepted into the Inside Project in Manhattan and her girlfriend isn’t, Ava is forced to leave her whole world behind in an effort to survive. But on the inside, she finds a new world that welcomes her with open arms. Could this be the family and home she has always searched for? Or is there something else going on here? —Emily Martin

Fantasy:

A Sweet Sting of Salt by Rose Sutherland

This is an immersive Nova Scotia gothic that retells the selkie wife folk tale. When Jean was younger, she was caught kissing another woman, and her girlfriend was sent away to marry a man she’d never met. Since then, she’s earned the villagers’ grudging respect as a midwife by saving lives, but she spends most of her time in isolation on the outskirts of town. One night, she is woken up by the sound of a woman screaming. She finds the stranger in labor outside in the middle of a storm. She takes her in and helps Muirin, who doesn’t speak English, give birth. Jean finds out she’s her neighbor Tobias’s new wife. But why has her pregnancy been kept a secret? And why does Muirin seem reluctant to return to Tobias’s home? —Danika Ellis

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Horror:

Bury Your Gays by Chuck Tingle

Chuck Tingle is back with his second horror novel! Misha is a gay screenwriter who has broken into the industry with a long-running series that was recently nominated for an Oscar. But executives have a plan for the next season finale: kill off the lesbian main characters “for the algorithm.” Misha refuses, but then characters from his horror movies begin stalking him—or, at least, people dressed up as them. He and his friends will have to survive being drawn into Misha’s own deadly plots, because Misha refuses to be scared into burying his gays. (Here’s a quick history of the Bury Your Gays trope, if you’re curious!) —Danika Ellis

My Darling Dreadful Thing by Johanna van Veen

Roos is never alone: she has a spirit companion only she can see named Ruth. That’s always been enough company for her—until she meets Agnes during one of her seances. Agnes is a young widow who invites Roos to her crumbling estate. Their attraction becomes undeniable, but Roos’s new life is shattered when someone is murdered and Roos is the obvious suspect. Now, she’ll have to prove her innocence by finding the real killer. —Danika Ellis

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Memoir:

The House of Hidden Meanings by RuPaul

RuPaul had already made a name for himself as a premier drag queen and entertainer before the first episode of Drag Race. But since the show started, he’s become more iconic and has helped usher in a new era of Drag. Here, he offers a more intimate side of himself, detailing his life growing up as a queer Black kid in California, his time as a punk in Atlanta and New York, and how he found self-acceptance. —Erica Ezeifedi

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Counsellor near Banbury details past experiences in acclaimed new book about dealing with trauma

Experienced counsellor and psychotherapist of 30 years, Philippa Smethurst has released her book today (November 21).A psychotherapist and counsellor near Banbury has detailed some of her own traumatic experiences in a new book that guides readers on how to break free from trauma.Philippa Smethurst’s life changed dramatically when she was caught up in the trauma surrounding the 1989 Tiananmen Square protests and massacre.At the time Philippa was employed as a university English teacher in China and witnessed events that deeply impacted students she was living amongst.She said: “Some of the students I knew and taught had their hopes and dreams destroyed, and I knew some of the students who had lost siblings or loved ones.“I saw how something huge can devastate and crush folk and how in those moments you experience such raw emotions, and that changed me.”This led Philippa to a career in helping others manage and deal with their trauma, which she has now been involved in for over 30 years.Today (November 21), Philippa releases her first book titled ‘20 Ways to Break Free from Trauma’, described as a guide to overcoming trauma featuring practical tips and strategies.The book has already received praise from writer and mental health advocate Alastair Campbell and human rights activist Sir Terry Waite, who said it’s ‘one of the best books on trauma’.Philippa, who now lives in Duns Tew, said: “The idea behind the book is that it describes and gives information about what trauma does to us with psychologically changing our mind and our bodies, the way we see ourselves and the world.“It goes through 20 ways that trauma shows up and then gives a multitude of real-life stories and details about how trauma shows up in practical terms. It also features exercises, questions for reflection, and some self-help.“The idea is to give the reader a trauma toolbox. It’s information for people who feel lost, alone, or cut off in their halls of misery.”The book contains exercises that people can repeat and are designed to help manage otherwise overwhelming trauma and emotions.Philippa said: “It contains bitesize exercises in everyday language aimed at a general audience. I’m trying to make something that can be complicated and straightforward.“The book is designed to help anyone who may feel they are not quite what they were and is not sure how to deal with it, anyone with trauma big or small, or anyone that is caring for someone with trauma.”To celebrate the release of ‘20 Ways to Break Free from Trauma’, Philippa is holding a book launch event in Banbury on Saturday, November 23.Taking place at the Banbury Counselling Academy (19 Parson’s Street), the event will feature a discussion on trauma between Philippa and the co-founder of the academy, Rachel Young.Philippa will also converse with Alaa Safi, a Palestinian counsellor who founded the Counselling Without Borders organisation.Philippa added: “It’s a free event, with pictures, poems, conversation, and interviews, as well as networking, informal discussion, and drinks and nibbles.”Continue Reading