Legendary filmmaker Pedro Almodovar’s English language debut film, The Room Next Door, is intriguing and thought-provoking, to say the least. The colorful visuals contrast the profound subject matter that the film addresses. Death, of course, comes with a sense of melancholy, and one does not usually imagine a pop of colors when visualizing death or the last day of one’s existence in the world. But in Almodovar’s world, death is almost a tragic relief that his subject yearns for. The Room Next Door is centered around Martha (Tilda Swinton) and Ingrid (Julianne Moore), two friends who had not been in contact for quite some time, but in a way, death brought them together. They revisited fond memories, until one day, Martha decided it was time she ended her life. Can Ingrid support her friend’s decision? How far was she willing to go for friendship?
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Why did Martha decide to end her life?
Martha had been diagnosed with third-stage cervical cancer; it was inoperable. She had signed up for an experimental treatment that so far had been effective, and she was showing improvements. As a war correspondent, Martha missed the thrill and excitement that life had abundantly thrown at her path and that she had enthusiastically embraced. Martha had never imagined she’d end up confined to a bed, and she struggled to cope with her reality. The experimental medication helped her feel hopeful about her future, though on most days she struggled to see the silver lining. She perhaps did not expect to see her old friend, Ingrid, walk through the door of her hospital room. They had been out of touch, and there had been several occasions when Martha intended to reach out to her, but somehow it never worked out. Ingrid had recently launched her book, and it was quite successful. She had eager readers lined up waiting for her to sign their copies, and Ingrid happily obliged. It was the only time she got to meet her readers, and she cherished the little time she got to spend with them. Ingrid was surprised to see her old friend, Stella, in the line, and it was from her that she learned about Martha’s condition. Ingrid immediately decided to visit her friend, and the minute they met, they immediately connected.
Life had got so busy for both of them that they did not have the time to catch up with each other, and it was in Martha’s hospital room that they finally got to share all those things that mattered in their lives. Martha was a teenager when she conceived her daughter, Michelle. She had been mostly absent from her daughter’s life, because she was busy trying to build her career. Martha mentioned with a sense of regret and remorse that her daughter had simply stated, “Your choice,” when she tried to discuss the experimental treatment option with her. She could not fathom that her own daughter had become so distant from her. She believed it was because Michelle suspected Martha was somehow responsible for not letting her father get more involved in their lives. But in reality, her father was never interested in them. He had recently returned from the war in Vietnam, and he was suffering from post-traumatic stress disorder. He did not intend to devote himself to his family yet, and was trying to figure his life out. Martha raised her child on her own with the help of her parents because she did not intend to burden him with responsibilities. However, Martha could not explain her struggles to her daughter, leading to severe misunderstandings.
Unlike most days, when Martha and Ingrid discussed their pasts, literature that moved them, and paintings that intrigued them, one day, when Ingrid visited Martha, she was in distress, screaming and crying her heart out. She explained that she had developed metastasis in her liver and it had become evident that the treatment was not working. While the doctors had advised her to continue with the treatment, Martha decided against it. She believed she deserved to die a respectable death, and she could already anticipate that the treatment would leave her completely destroyed, both physically and mentally. Considering her chances of survival were slim, she preferred to die with dignity rather than like a discarded lab rat used in a medical experiment.
That day, she witnessed what appeared to be a pink snowfall; Martha thought it was possibly because of climate change, but regardless, it was an unforgettable view. Martha’s body degrading to a point of no return and the earth reaching a point beyond recovery is a parallel that one will repeatedly think of while watching The Room Next Door. There are days when nature shines with all its might, but as much as it tries, man-made disasters are often impossible to recover from, and everything coming to an end seems almost inevitable. In the film, John Turturro’s Damian character echoed the same idea, a feeling of complete hopelessness about the ever degrading condition of nature.
Why did Ingrid agree to help Martha?
After Martha had mentally prepared herself to end her life, she discussed her plan with Ingrid. Not only did Ingrid have to come to terms with the possibility that she would no longer get to see her friend, but she also had to make up her mind about Martha’s request. She had procured a pill to euthanize herself through the dark web, and she wanted a friend by her side. Her daughter was too distant, and Martha did not wish to disclose all that she was going through at the time to her. Ingrid wondered why Martha chose her for the role, and not her other friends she was way closer to. Martha explained that she had considered them first and had requested them to help her, but they had all declined. They were petrified after learning of her plan, and they did not intend to play any part in her suicide mission.
Ingrid, who had a complex relationship with death and had written a book about it, did not know how to respond. Death scared her, but she knew that Martha deserved to see a familiar face before she passed away. Moreover, she admired Martha’s courage and her decision to be in complete control of her life, but she wondered if she was audacious enough to face death. It would be inhumane to decline her request and suddenly discover that she had carried out her plan alone and was lonely at the time of her death. Ingrid prioritized her friend’s happiness over her own discomfort and agreed to be there for her. Somewhere deep down, Ingrid was also hopeful that maybe Martha would change her mind.
Did Martha end her life?
Martha rented a place near Woodstock for a month to carry out her plan. She did not wish to die at a familiar place she was too attached to. She wanted to spend her last few days close to nature, soaking it all in and leaving without any sense of regret. As a war correspondent, Martha had seen brutality and bloodshed up close, but she’d never predicted that one day she would be at war with herself. For Martha, being in control was important, and dying a dignified death was her way of winning the war, she had every intention of bravely looking death in the eye and submitting to it without any sense of remorse.
Upon reaching the place, Ingrid chose a room on the ground floor just below Martha’s room. While it was not exactly the room next door, Martha was happy to have Ingrid by her side to keep her company. Martha was devastated when she discovered that she had left the pill at home, and while Ingrid suggested they go to the apartment the next day, Martha felt a sudden rush of urgency to find the pill. The fear of her plan falling apart scared her, and she knew it would be extremely difficult to get her hands on the medication once again. After going through all of Martha’s stuff in her study, Ingrid discovered an envelope labeled ‘goodbye’ that had the pill in it. She had also come across Martha’s memoir; presumably Ingrid will refer to the red notebook in the future every now and then to sketch an idea of her friend’s life. Martha was finally relieved, and they returned to their rented place. Ingrid tried to suggest that maybe leaving the pill behind was a sign, but Martha refused to listen to anything that would discourage her from taking the step. She was well aware of what she was doing, and she did not need her friend to repeatedly ask her to consider going through months of grueling pain with barely any chances of survival. Martha had instructed Ingrid to always check her door; if closed, it would indicate that she had carried out her plan. One day, when Ingrid woke up to a closed door, she was in tears and gulped down a sedative to ease her pain, only to realize that Martha had not executed her plan, and it was just the wind that had closed the door. Nature’s dark humor did not play well on Ingrid.
Out of everything that Martha had lost to cancer, she particularly regretted losing her attention span. She could not do the things that once made her happy, such as reading a book or watching a classic. The little joys in life were taken away from her, and with them, all her raison d’etre. On the night of the scare, Ingrid and Martha watched The Dead (directed by John Huston, an adaptation of James Joyce’s short story that goes by the same name). Martha resonated with Joyce’s perspective on life and death– the uneasiness that comes with thinking of mortality, of being reduced to nothing, of one’s body resting in the cold and a gush of snow falling on their grave. Tears trickled down Martha’s cheek; the melancholy was all too palpable. The next morning, Martha soaked in the sunshine and enjoyed the slightly chilly wind that entered through her window. Ingrid left to meet her friend Damian, one of the very few people Ingrid had told about Martha’s plan. Martha was against Ingrid informing anyone of anything because she did not wish for Ingrid to get entangled in a mess with the police after her death, but Ingrid trusted Damian, and they both thought having a lawyer by their side who could help Ingrid if things got complicated could be of advantage.
During The Room Next Door’s ending, when Ingrid returned home, she found Martha’s lifeless body on the sunlounger by the pool. Martha had a bright yellow outfit on for the occasion and sported a red lip. She was feeling her best that morning and was ready to face death valiantly.
Did Michelle forgive her mother?
The policeman who interrogated Ingrid after Martha’s death was anything but understanding. He was a religious extremist who considered the act of suicide a sin and intended to put Ingrid behind bars for assisting her friend in executing her plan. But Ingrid denied her involvement and repeatedly stated that she had come on vacation with Martha, and her decision was a surprise to her as well. But as it so happened, their friend Stella had told the police that Martha had asked her to be with her to carry out her plan, and that was all the more reason why the police suspected her. Ingrid contacted Damian, and his lawyer helped sort out the issue.
When Ingrid left the police station, she received a call from Martha’s daughter, Michelle, who wanted to visit the place where her mother had spent her final days. Michelle looked exactly like her mother. While Ingrid dearly missed her friend, spending time with her daughter helped her heal. She explained how Martha barely had any role in Michelle’s father’s disinterest in knowing his daughter better. Knowing the truth helped Michelle forgive her mother and see her in a softer light. She felt closer to her mother after her death than she ever felt when she was alive. Ingrid continued to write letters to Martha and expressed how little things around her reminded her of her friend.
In The Room Next Door’s ending, when Ingrid saw Michelle resting at the same spot where she had discovered Martha’s body, it was almost a surreal experience, especially because they looked so alike. Seeing Michelle alive and well made Ingrid feel hopeful; she could almost see her friend in Michelle, even though she was not there; she had left behind an important piece of her.
The snowfall in the end was cathartic; it reminded Ingrid of Martha, of all the time they had spent together, of all the places they had been to, and the snowfall they had witnessed together. She was gone, but her story lived on, her memories lingered, and as a writer, Ingrid perhaps will ensure that Martha was remembered fondly by those who knew her. Strangers would discover her story and all that she had been through. And there would be days when little things would make Ingrid think of Martha, almost as a reminder that she was still around, somewhere.
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